The greatness of advanced technology. HA!

"Life is a bowl of cherries" - yea right, maybe for the male population. Todays dating scene with regard to "rules" of  what you can do and what you cant do have totally been pushed aside, and now with the oh so wonderful advance in technology the genius cell phone now comes into play. 

Funny isn't it,  a great technological advance can cause so much drama. But its not just the cell phone being able to take pictures or videos but also receive text messages. Which i am sure cause lots of problems with couples... as a text message is a conversation that is silent and private. Also you can reach that contact at any time of day - which leads me further into this blog.

So as I was saying about the dating "rules" changing I am sure you can see what I am talking about... How do you set those rules, are you going to play that possessive girlfriend/boyfriend and demand to know everything and everyone they text? Or you can play that not a big deal and let them have their privacy and you know that if they want to share their text they will... with this role you can assume there is nothing that the other person would be hiding. 

So this leads me further to wonder if you have that kind of role where you give the person their privacy but then you notice the secrecy that is then being established by the other person such as guarding their phone, taking their phone when gone to the bathroom, and most of all when you ask who you are you texting and don't get an answer and then the next morning you ask again and they say a friend when normally if it was a friend they would tell you- no questions asked. Also when your boyfriend isn't a big texter but all of a sudden in a 5 hour period develops into one that should wave some flags. 

Maybe the conversation isn't indecent and completely harmless why act like it is then? If you have a relationship which you believe is trusting and open to each other why be secretive and sneaky... However when this other party (opposite sex) is texting your boyfriend/girlfriend and letting them know that they are still in bed.. and just woke up after texting them till early hours of the morning.. well that holds alot more then just simply texting someone. 

I am sure a large portion of the population aged 21 to 26 can agree that you dont text a member of the opposite sex who you know is taken telling them that you are still laying in bed and just woke up with a provocative manor/tone. 

ALSO, on top of this the other party keeps asking about their girlfriend and how they are living together as if prying to get the details on the relationship... especially asking how their girlfriend is when they dont even know her... to further discuss this topic.. I am pretty sure sending this member a picture of her half naked body follows under the topic of "are you fucking kidding me!" especially when an excuse comes to follow with some lame reasoning.. let alone this picture was saved to the phone. ALSO... before that picture i believe that calling this person to wish them a happy new year would be far from normal.. oh but apparently this person is a true and meaningful friend... yeaa bullshit!.... This blog is literally just a rant. But anyone reading it im sure has felt some insecurity with some kind of technological advance when it comes to dating.... so Life is a bowl of cherries... sometimes you just bite into the really sour kind or the really sweet kinds.